Love is in the air and everyone seems to be waiting around for Cupid to shoot his arrow their way, but the dilemma is the love doesn’t seem to last! Yes everyone is longing for that feeling of wholeness, completion and security combined to make one solid emotion…Love! The question is, are they really ready for it? I found myself looking for love before it was time and my heart got bruised. That bruise not only affected me, it affected those that I would come in contact with along my journey. Displaying characteristics of what I thought was love, finding out in the end that they were only snippets of lust in which were not strong enough to make up the real ingredients of love. Had I known what I have been so blessed to experience now, I would have prepared my life more for real love!
Why preparation you ask? Anything you plan on welcoming into your world permanently will need the proper preparation. Let’s say you were bringing a new baby home, you definitely have to prepare your mind and home for that; or say you had new furniture coming in, you would arrange your household according to the furniture with hopes it will blend in with what you already have. That’s sort of how love is. You heard Keith Sweat, “Make it Last Forever”, and in order for that to be you have to clean house within yourself. Initiate a self-discovery by ridding yourself of all bondage caused by your snippets of lust and literally have a clear heart. Now this doesn’t happen overnight, this may take months, years even, depending on how much you have endured along your journey.
Remember, while completing this self-discovery, try not to look at it as time wasted, look at it as time consumed. This “time”, if used wisely may be to thank for your lifetime worth of true love! Now you are officially So Fresh & So Clean for Love!