14 Mar 2013

5 Ways I Kept My Man Happy While Planning Our Wedding

“Ok ok, found the perfect cake, oh wait did I make the deposit on the photographer, yes Mom took care of that last week.  Ok, let me email the ladies about their dress fitting this week; hopefully everyone shows up and leaves the drama home! Oh I can’t forget to

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10 Feb 2013

Church Overload: It’s Time To Make Your Family Your Ministry!

So, it has been brought to my attention that Black Men today are no longer pursuing Black women; no, not because of the drama, not because of the baby daddy count nor because of our independence….but because they are sick of trying to compete with Jesus!! How about that! Yeap,

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02 Nov 2012

Uninvited Guests: The Fewer People Involved In Your Relationship, The Longer It Will Last!

Have you ever noticed that the relationships you know the least about are always the ones that seem to be the best? Of course they are, because you don’t know the details of their every move…which is not always a bad thing.  No matter how hard we try not to

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19 Sep 2012

Is There Salvation After Cheating? 7 Steps To Forgiveness And Healing

Once a cheater always a cheater is the all too familiar saying; but is that a true statement?  Not all but the majority of people have cheated at least once in their lifetime; and the part that never ceases to amaze me is that most of the “cheated on” crew

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10 Sep 2012

The 10 Commandments Of Football: Do’s And Dont’s For Pigskin Season

That’s right ladies it’s that time of the year again.  You know that time when all of his attention is solely focused on the TV screen (unless it’s half time); where Sundays & Mondays become his favorite days of the week and he barely recognizes you unless you’re wearing his

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04 Sep 2012

Hold On To Your Nuts: 8 Ways To Show Her You’re ‘THE MAN’

Ok fellas, I know this generation is predominately for “Independent women” (which is not a bad thing); however because of this many men are losing their significance and many relationships are losing balance.  Being the man in the relationship is more than paying for the tab, putting it down in

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16 Aug 2012

Dangerously In Love: 8 Signs You May Be In An Abusive Relationship

Of course no one deliberately volunteers to be a victim of an abusive relationship; but what if you are too blind to realize you’re in one?  I was looking through the tabloids and one America’s bad girls, Evelyn Lozada, made the front page again…unfortunately this time it wasn’t for her

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09 Aug 2012

When A Sweet Love Goes Sour: 7 Ways To Show Him Your Appreciation

“I don’t know what’s going on with him; he doesn’t seem to be paying me any attention. He used to always go the extra mile to show me how much he loves me, now it seems like he doesn’t even put forth the effort.  Now that I think about it,

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31 Jul 2012

Just Put It In Your Mouth…Literally! 10 Foods That Help Boost Your Sex Drive

There is nothing worse than losing the desire to please your mate sexually. As a matter of fact there is something worst; not knowing what to do about it. Don’t worry; this is not an uncommon situation. As we age, of course our bodies begin to change physically. Our hormones

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23 Jul 2012

The New Role Models According to VIBE Magazine

Introducing the Role Models for the next generation…Well VIBE magazine seems to think so anyway.  Kandi Burress (Real Housewives of Atlanta), Tamar Braxton (Braxton Family Values), Evelyn Lozada (Basketball Wives), and  Chrissy Lampkin (formerly of Love & Hip Hop, allegedly she won’t be returning). These ladies all got a spot on

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16 Jul 2012

Is Marriage Really The Answer?…5 Questions To Ask Yourself Before Getting Married

Is Marriage really the answer? Or are you just fresh out of options? Sometimes people think rushing to go down the aisle will make all their problems go away, when in actuality if both parties aren’t ready, you’re heading down the aisle of disaster!  A lot of people are slapped

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09 Jul 2012

Top 5 Reasons Why He Won’t Put A Ring On It!…Survey Says

While hanging out one Friday night with the ladies, we broke out into conversation about why men won’t put a ring on it. After dishing out our views, we noticed a pattern; women are overexerting their role and allowing the term “wifey” to replace “wife”.  Some of the ladies came

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28 Jun 2012

Mind vs Body: Mental Arousal Rules…Hands Down

How many of you know that mental stimulation is more arousing than physical stimulation when it comes to sex?  I mean think about it, even our ability to get sexually aroused is for the most part controlled by our mind.  Once you are mentally turned off by someone, unless it’s

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22 Jun 2012

And Then There Was Me!

Looking back on my life I’ve always tried to make everyone happy.  I call it suffering from the “Pleasing everyone but myself” disease. Even before having children I’ve always felt the need to please and put myself last when it came to scheduling, making time and prioritizing. Years gone by

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18 Jun 2012

“Fakin It Til You Make It”: 5 Tips On How To Be Successful

What is it that successful individuals have that make them so efficacious and assertive? What is it that keeps them producing greatness and how does it seem they automatically have that business mindset of never losing? It seems they have some type of internal drive that allows them to persist

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07 Jun 2012

“Letting Go for Good!” 8 Tips To Gain Closure

There is nothing more unattractive than someone who visibly carries their baggage!  Having a past is one thing but not knowing when to cut the cord and let it go for good can harm your future relationships.  Experience is always the best teacher and a very good friend of mine

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24 May 2012

The First Wives Club: 8 Tips To Get You Through Your Separation

After reading the article on Rohan Marley’s engagement to this Brazilian model I am totally poignant for Lauryn Hill.  I’m sure we all remember their depressing break-up and how she went from being the an uplifting rapper/singer/actress to singing sad disheartening love songs and shedding tears during her interviews. Granted

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21 May 2012

The 80/20 Rule: The Grass Is NOT Greener On The Other Side

The perfect relationship; fact or myth? Myth! I have learned from personal experience that the 80/20 rule does exist. A few years ago I found myself peaking over the fence and actually tip toeing to see for myself how much greener the grass could be. But of course when viewing

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17 May 2012

Happy Blended Families Do Exist: 4 Tips for Mother/ Stepmother Harmony

Normally I don’t directly dish out personal information, but due to a recent experience I felt it was totally necessary to mentally empower my fellow readers! While sitting in the hospital with my son and his Step-mother one of the nurses walked in and began referring to her as his

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09 May 2012

6 Tips To Help You Get So Fresh And So Clean For Love

Love is in the air and everyone seems to be waiting around for Cupid to shoot his arrow their way, but the dilemma is the love doesn’t seem to last! Yes everyone is longing for that feeling of wholeness, completion and security combined to make one solid emotion…Love! The question

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01 May 2012

Pressing Forward : 4 Keys To Obtaining Your Goals

Are you where you want to be or are you just a figment of your own imagination? Being where you want to be takes time, diligence, motivation and courage. Unfortunately success doesn’t happen overnight; and usually when it does, if you’re not smart about it, you will lose that success

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12 Apr 2012

Check Your Surroundings

You know the good thing about when my brain gets to work is that its on tha move and the bad thing about when it gets to working is I can’t write it down fast enough lol.  This morning I woke up and asked myself,” Am I surrounding myself around

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03 Apr 2012

Uplifting Your Mate

Relationships are not like back in the day when we would uplift one another and be each other’s support in every aspect. In this day and age we have competitive relationships where you have one mate trying to “out shine” the other. Now there is nothing wrong with an uplifting

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21 Mar 2012

Loving YOU! Its A Lifestyle

How often do we forget as my boy Katt Williams said, “You have to take care of your star player” (lol).  How can you give yourself what you don’t have to offer? Loving yourself goes beyond treating yourself to a mani and a pedi which are all nice but we

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