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  • Did I Pull A Taraji?

    “Taraji”, as in Taraji P. Henson, the actress who plays Lauren in Steve Harvey’s highly anticipated film, Think Like A Man;  hopefully you’ve seen it...

  • 6 Must Have Qualities To Look For While Dating

    It occurred to me a couple of weeks ago that as I get older, my “list” significantly gets shorter. You know what “list” I’m talking...

  • At Least I Wasn’t Ms. Lonely

    You know when you get something that you always wanted, and then you find out it wasn’t all what it was is cracked up to...

  • Cougar-Hood Never Looked So Good

    …or “house cat” as my homegirl would call me…considering I’m only in my late twenties…. I date men older than me…period… always have; they’re usually...

  • Survival Tips For Getting Through St. Valentine’s Day

    Valentine’s Day is upon us and well…I’m indifferent. A part of me is like ” Eeh, I’m single and dateless…so what…I have a deadline on...

  • WOW, I Need To Think About This

    I had a moment with life this past weekend and it really had me pondering my future. One of my very good friends got married...

  • New Year = New Outlook

    Happy New Year to every one…and a new year  it is indeed! <<<With my late a**… And yes, I haven’t posted anything since my break...

  • SMDH:I’ve Never Been Caught…Till Now! (pt.2)

    I won’t lie, the time in between NOT hearing from my beau (Prototype) to when he texted me at one o’clock in the morning four...

  • Seeking Your CEO: The New First Date Should Be On A Golf Course (pt.1)

    I was inspired to write this by Richard ‘BigRich‘ Evans piece “What is your Relationship ROI” for two reasons: I look at myself as a...

  • SMDH: I’ve Never Been Caught…Till Now!

    I did something dumb the other day, I’ll admit, out of boredom. I had two and half hours to kill before I had to go...

  • Smitten

    So the boxer guy, he’s actually been hanging in there pretty strong. And you know I’m quick to cut a guy clean off! Saved in...

  • Yeah, He Used You

    I got my first question! I found this in my inbox last night, although this isn’t necessarily a Q&A column, I am much obliged to...

  • And There Was One

    So I have good news and bad news…the bad news is “Corporate Thug” ( See ‘One Fine Scrub’) has popped up recently…only for a moment...

  • Cocaine Cowboy

    There is a first time for everything… He was chocolaty, 28, no kids, well groomed, an engineer for a Fortune 500 company, spiritual, AND funny...

  • Thirsty Much?

    Now let me be the first one to tell you that I DO NOT do anything special to these men when I first meet them....

  • One FINE ‘Scrub’ To Go Please!

    Boy! Do I have a story for you! But before I get into that, let me give you a little background on me, I have...

  • Dear Abby, My Friend Is Having A Shot Gun Wedding

    My  friend is getting married… and she asked me to write and recite a poem inspired by their relationship at their reception. Sounds cool and...

  • You Don’t Have to Lie to Kick It…

    As a mid 20 something female professional, the one thing I can’t stand more than reptiles is a liar…which is unfortunately inevitable in the dating/relationship realm…but...