Communication
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How To Save Your Marriage After Financial Infidelity
Financial Infidelity continues to be a major contributing factor to why many marriages fail in this country. In fact, it is a well known fact...
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The Shut Up Zone: Learning When NOT To Speak
Communication is key. That is the belief of this generation. In fact, communication is a major economic commodity. Being connected is so important that almost...
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I’m Having An Affair (Part I)
This has to stop. I can’t believe I’m sharing this, but I have to admit it. I’m past the embarrassment and deeply desire true healing...
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Do You Know How To Talk?
When you read the title of this discussion, I know most of you said, “Of course I know how to talk”. And I bet many...
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The Plants (Part 2)
In “The Plants…Part 1”, I spoke about how it’s important to get rid of the dead leaves in your marriage. This will give your marriage...
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You Can’t Change Her, You Have To Embrace Her
So today I am talking to a good male friend of mine. He mentions that he recently had talks with some women about being in...
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How to Survive the (failed) Grocery Store Hookup
Oh, look at him, my mind uncontrollably echoed. I focused to see what my subconscious had nudged me about. What I saw was a gentleman...
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The Art of Hearing
There’s this guy I like to hang out with. I’ve actually known him most of my life and was extremely pleased when we recently reconnected....
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21 Days of Thanks
Today I turned 40 and I don’t think I’ve ever been more excited about a birthday. Or ANY day for that matter. It strikes me...
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Of Course She’s Crazy!!!
Of course she’s crazy!!! That’s right women are freakin nuts! A majority of them have lost their mind and have lost all common sense. Why...
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Why Doesn’t My Boyfriend Listen To Me?
Dear Young Black Married Man: Simply put, my man doesn’t listen to me. I mean literally! I’ll tell him something and ask what do you...
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Opinions and A-holes
Recently one of my sisters shared some troubling news with me and I was very supportive (at the time). A few days later, I began...
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You So Crazy!
One of my all-time favorite shows of the 90’s is Martin. In fact, I have all of the seasons on DVD; continue to watch the...
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When “Nothing” means “Something”
“What’s wrong?” We’ve all been in a position where these two words questioned our well-being. When these words are uttered, it must be extremely apparent...
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Bees STILL Prefer Honey Over Vinegar…
My mother is literally the “mother of all clichés.” Whenever she wanted to teach me a lesson, she would pull from her “old sayings” bank...
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What Did You Say?
“ It’s not what you say, but how you say it.” My then boyfriend-turned-husband would preach this so much – I could anticipate when he...
