05 May 2015

Dating In The ATL: The Good, The Bad And The Unbelievable

So what’s it really like to date in Atlanta as a woman in her 40’s? It varies. The vast majority of the dates I’ve been on have been disastrous. I’ve been on dates with all kinds of men in an effort to figure out if I can be flexible in

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13 Sep 2012

4 Things You SHOULDN’T Consider When Choosing A Mate

Love is an uncontrollable feeling that overwhelms your mental stability. When people fall in love whether it be with another person, an animal, or a material item, your body gets weak, you have jitters, and your mind is completely consumed on that one thing or one person. Love has no

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27 Jul 2012

Do CHIVALRY and KANYE Go In The Same Sentence?

Recently paparazzi snapped photos of Kim Kardashian pumping gas while boyfriend Kanye West waited in the car (the Lamborghini that SHE bought him).  Some have said that she was being a good woman and catering to her man, others have said, and i quote “dang Kanye is a pimp”. Hmmm

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12 Jul 2012

5 Types of Men that scream: I’M SCORNED!!!!

I recently had the pleasure of meeting a scorned man…lucky me right?  It was very little pleasure in this encounter,  but it did however make me think, “ Are scorned men worst than a heartbroken woman?” A little background…I met him at a party of an ex boyfriend, which we’ll

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21 May 2012

The 80/20 Rule: The Grass Is NOT Greener On The Other Side

The perfect relationship; fact or myth? Myth! I have learned from personal experience that the 80/20 rule does exist. A few years ago I found myself peaking over the fence and actually tip toeing to see for myself how much greener the grass could be. But of course when viewing

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27 Apr 2012

Did I Pull A Taraji?

“Taraji”, as in Taraji P. Henson, the actress who plays Lauren in Steve Harvey’s highly anticipated film, Think Like A Man;  hopefully you’ve seen it already, if you haven’t …SHAME ON YOU! And although they’re mixed reviews, I thought it was pretty damn good. I remember purchasing this book back

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16 Apr 2012

6 Must Have Qualities To Look For While Dating

It occurred to me a couple of weeks ago that as I get older, my “list” significantly gets shorter. You know what “list” I’m talking about…where we write all of the reasonable AND UN-reasonable qualities we want in our future husband. In no particular order, we ramble down on paper

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09 Mar 2012

At Least I Wasn’t Ms. Lonely

You know when you get something that you always wanted, and then you find out it wasn’t all what it was is cracked up to be…that’s how my date was with Corporate Thug…what can I say, I got a soft spot for the kid… I’m currently entertaining Baby Boy, so

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07 Mar 2012

Cougar-Hood Never Looked So Good

…or “house cat” as my homegirl would call me…considering I’m only in my late twenties…. I date men older than me…period… always have; they’re usually between the ages of 28-35. I’ve only dated two guys who were younger, one of which is recent, and the other I’ve known almost two

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03 Feb 2012

New Year = New Outlook

Happy New Year to every one…and a new year  it is indeed! <<<With my late a**… And yes, I haven’t posted anything since my break up with Prototype. And yes, it hurt THE HELL out of me.  I wasn’t in a robe eating Breyer’s all day and night…but I did

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21 Oct 2011

SMDH:I’ve Never Been Caught…Till Now! (pt.2)

I won’t lie, the time in between NOT hearing from my beau (Prototype) to when he texted me at one o’clock in the morning four days later saying “Why did you hurt me?” …was killer. And all I can say is karma is a b*tch with blonde hair and a

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11 Oct 2011

Seeking Your CEO: The New First Date Should Be On A Golf Course (pt.1)

I was inspired to write this by Richard ‘BigRich‘ Evans piece “What is your Relationship ROI” for two reasons: I look at myself as a business. Yup! Brittany Knight, INC. Brittany Knight, INC. is seeking a merger in the industry of relationships. And with 35% of all major business deals

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03 Oct 2011

SMDH: I’ve Never Been Caught…Till Now!

I did something dumb the other day, I’ll admit, out of boredom. I had two and half hours to kill before I had to go to work, and it just so happen that I was around the corner from Corporate Thug’s house. I was looking cute in my little sundress,

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14 Sep 2011

Smitten

So the boxer guy, he’s actually been hanging in there pretty strong. And you know I’m quick to cut a guy clean off! Saved in the phone as “DO NOT ANSWER” and all, so you know he must be doing SOMETHING right! Case and point… My girlfriend and I went

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06 Sep 2011

Yeah, He Used You

I got my first question! I found this in my inbox last night, although this isn’t necessarily a Q&A column, I am much obliged to help in any way I can. I like this guy. He told me he liked me but now he is seeing someone. Should I move

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23 Aug 2011

And There Was One

So I have good news and bad news…the bad news is “Corporate Thug” ( See ‘One Fine Scrub’) has popped up recently…only for a moment though…I promise. BUT the problem with that is this: I believe I was his “Zero Calorie Substitute” that Jai Stone was talking about. And even

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15 Aug 2011

Cocaine Cowboy

There is a first time for everything… He was chocolaty, 28, no kids, well groomed, an engineer for a Fortune 500 company, spiritual, AND funny with a Master’s from Cornell University. Everything was cool…until he dropped THIS bomb: “Do you do lines?” My face is contorted now.  “ Lines?” “

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05 Aug 2011

Thirsty Much?

Now let me be the first one to tell you that I DO NOT do anything special to these men when I first meet them. ABSOLUTELY NOTHINIG. I’m totally myself, and what can I say most men are intrigued by just that (*CHEEZ*) But when I give you my phone

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27 Jul 2011

One FINE ‘Scrub’ To Go Please!

Boy! Do I have a story for you! But before I get into that, let me give you a little background on me, I have recently parted ways with someone whom I THOUGHT was my significant other, I like to call him  “Corporate Thug”, which is self explanatory  and ultimately

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23 Jul 2011

Dear Abby, My Friend Is Having A Shot Gun Wedding

My  friend is getting married… and she asked me to write and recite a poem inspired by their relationship at their reception. Sounds cool and I should be happy for her right? Well here are the facts: They’ve only been dating for a year He never technically proposed Technically she got

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16 Jul 2011

You Don’t Have to Lie to Kick It…

As a mid 20 something female professional, the one thing I can’t stand more than reptiles is a liar…which is unfortunately inevitable in the dating/relationship realm…but I’m sure you knew that already. And I mean men tell the dumbest lies ever! Like on a Friday you say “ Oh I have

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