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Picture This…She Was Actually Made For You!!

Men, ever seen a woman and thought, “I wonder what she would look like with out her clothes on”? If her looks and style took you to that place you have already skipped over her inner qualities and blown away the reason why she was actually created for you. I say this because women are of course more than stimulation for the man’s libido. Yes, I know, we are stimulated by sight first, but that should be the card that draws you but the next card should be that of what drives her.

For example, seeing a beautiful woman physically should draw your attention then your next conscious thought should be what makes her different from the previous beauty that caught your eye. At some point, we must start to delve into the why’s of her and not the waist size and butt cheeks on her. I implore you to ponder the thought of could she be the one who brings out the better businessman in you, the better communicator in you, the better leader in you. See women were actually made to bring evidence that we are better with support and encouragement than we are alone by ourselves.

In the Bible, Genesis states that God created woman for Adam because it was not good for him to be alone.  So, the next time you see a pretty face, and nice waist think beyond the physical to what she is actually made for, which is a better you!

Man Up,



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Tony Carthan

Tony Carthan

Tony Carthan is an advocate for men making lasting relationships. He and his wife Tarenia are the founders of Marry Me 4 Life, and are currently co-authoring a book together. Tarenia is also a blogger for Black Love Forum. Together they focus on couple’s enrichment.