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7 Reasons She Won’t Go Out With You Again

This one is for the fellas, keep in mind that women are fickle beasts with many delicate sensibilities.  Its not our fault, but not only are we bred differently, but we also are affected differently by things that don’t have much of an effect on men.  So when it comes to dating, there are some things that men can do that will have her heat switch permanently iced over.  I know, I know… lots of these things seem small to you, but remember what I said about delicate sensibilities.  We asked 50 women and here are the to 7 reasons women won’t take a second date.

1. HE IS DISTRACTED – Women always like to be the center of attention, especially on a date.  So when a man is constantly checking his phone or checking the score of the game over her shoulder, she feels unimportant.  Show her she is your priority by giving her 100% of your attention on the date.

2. HE IS INCONSIDERATE – Women like to know that you find value in them, especially their time and energy.  So things like being late without calling are sure to set off alarms.

3. POOR COMMUNICATION – Verbal communication is a primal source of connection for women. Just as men need visual stimulation, women need to know you are willing to invest in getting to know and understand her by asking questions, taking mental notes and applying what you have learned.  Telling her what is on your mind is a HUGE turn on!

4. GROPING, OGLING & OTHER DEMORALIZING BEHAVIOR – You might want to get a few dates under your belt before you start squeezing her all too irresistible butt cheeks.  And staring at her ta-tas all through dinner certainly won’t win you any brownie points.  Show her she has your admiration and respect.

5. BAD TABLE MANNERS – This probably seems minute, but its a stickler.  Polishing off the rest of her food then burping in her face is  a 100% guarantee she won’t be seeing you again.

6. BEING DISRESPECTFUL – I know this one can be left open to interpretation, but let me give you a few examples.  Staring at other women, talking down to her or anything that implies she should “stay in her place” are all things that will get you added to the “DO NOT ANSWER” list.  (That’s the list of men who women send straight to voice mail and never return his calls).

7. POOR PERSONAL HYGIENE – This should be self explanatory, but let me add a few in here. In addition to bad smells, dirty clothes, or funky breath, we can throw in dirty nails, uncut/ un-groomed hair and wrinkled clothes.  Cause if any of that is going on, all she is thinking is how much work you are going to be.

I would love to know your thoughts. Feel free to connect with me on Twitter @JaiStone

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Jai Stone

Jai Stone

Jai Stone, is often referred to as the Emotional Nudist. A phrase that defines her brand of authentic living. With nearly 20 years in the marketing industry Jai has become a well respected social media expert and is also the founder of the Black Love Forum Movement.