19 Apr 2013

Control Freaks Ruin Marriages!

I will be the first to admit that control was going to be the death of my marriage in the beginning. There were several (ok tons) of times when I not only used control, I abused control such as; telling my husband that he better not touch the heating/air setting

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22 Oct 2012

Grey Divorces – Is It Really Too Late

” Yes it’s over, the kids are gone, what’s the use trying to hang on…” Those are just a few of the lyrics to the 1978 hit by Denise Williams and Johnny Mathis “Too Much Too Little Too Late”.   Those words are being said/song by many today. Grey divorces

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12 Sep 2012

How To Save Your Marriage In 10 Steps Or Less

Our focus here at Black Love Forum is to give our audience the tools to create healthy and long lasting relationships, this includes marriages.  I’m particularly an avid supporter in this area, and I wanted to share some information that my expertise has given me.  If you implement some or

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06 Sep 2012

C’MON MAN…Marriage Edition

What’s going on in the world today with marriages?  Have you been hearing what’s going on?  Have you been seeing what’s going on?  Have you been feeling what’s going on?  It’s on T.V.  It’s on the radio, in magazines, in newspapers.  It’s the apparent infatuation with “let’s watch them get

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09 Jul 2012

Gabrielle Union Dishes On How Negative Publicity Hurt Her Career [VIDEO]

Featured above is Gabrielle Union’s side of the story in this exclusive interview at Radio One Fest in Miami by T.T. Torrez. Dwyane Wade‘s divorce was very bitter and very public with his ex Siohvaughn blaming actress Gabrielle Union for their marital woes.  The rumors have swirled for years, for

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18 May 2012

How To Save Your Marriage After Financial Infidelity

Financial Infidelity continues to be a major contributing factor to why many marriages fail in this country.  In fact, it is a well known fact that money problems rank among the top three issues, along with sex and kids that cause the most arguments in a marriage. Financial infidelity, also

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01 Mar 2012

Love and Despair – Recovering From a Break-Up

When we are in love, the world is golden and nothing gets us down. When we are out of love, we are desperate to regain those feelings we had while in love.

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17 Jan 2012

5 Tips To Help You Live With Your Ex In The Same House

Could you continue to live with your ex if the relationship was over? Many couples are choosing this option in these troubled times as they are so entwined financially. What kind of tips could be offered to make this time bearable for both of these ex partners? Read on…

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10 Jan 2012

Coping With Divorce and Depression – Learn to Fight It

Many things can trigger depression. Divorce happens to be one of them. Feelings of regret, isolation, cheating and suicide are common for a person who struggles to adapt to life without a partner. Coping with divorce and depression is not easy, learn to fight it.

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02 Jan 2012

Marriage – Divorce – Separation – How to Handle the Split Loyalties with Friends After Separation

We have all most probably encountered it at some stage in our lives – who do we stay friends with after a couple divorces or separates? Here we explore some of the main issues involved & explain a simple framework for handling the situation with your divorcing or separating friend.

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28 Dec 2011

Child-Focused Custody – Putting Down the Boxing Gloves

When child custody becomes a battle, everyone loses. Parents are pitted against each other and innocent children inevitably pay the price. With child-centered divorce parents learn to put their perspectives where it really belongs – on their children. The result? Everyone in the family benefits, in the months ahead … and for years to come.

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16 Nov 2011

Getting A Divorce – Are You Really Ready For Divorce?

It feels like I don’t love him anymore. And maybe so does he. Maybe this is the time to end all of this. You might be thinking like that, but as long as you still have the words ‘like’ and ‘maybe’, you are not ready for divorce.

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10 Nov 2011

Dealing With Divorce – Avoid Divorce and Fix Your Marital Problems Instantly

Dealing with divorce is one of the most difficult phases in one’s life that needs couple of times to think about. It’s a very serious matter that’s why considering all the circumstances first before getting into it completely. Many couples of today end up with divorce for many reasons.

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17 Oct 2011

Is it Safe to Date a Woman Whose Divorce Isn’t Final Yet?

As a man, the one thing you hopefully have already begun to realize about your relationships with women is that nothing is guaranteed, especially when you start dealing with all of the emotional baggage that most people bring into the relationship. In this article we are going to talk about seeing or dating a woman who is still married but the divorce should be complete anytime now.

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15 Oct 2011

Unplugging From Your Ex-Spouse

Have you ever been emotionally triggered and hijacked by something your ex said or did? Have you ever been emotionally triggered and hijacked by something your ex didn’t say or do?

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12 Sep 2011

Common Causes of Divorce

There are many reasons why people want a divorce. It could be easy to put a reason for the sake of supporting a divorce petition. In reality though, there may be hundreds of unique reasons why certain couples just want out. Sometimes, there is more that just one reason.

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07 Sep 2011

Divorce Is a Symptom

Divorce is a symptom not a disease. Divorce is created by the effect of an underlying cause. Divorce requires open heart surgery, not a sticky plaster.

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25 Aug 2011

No Instructions Needed

Sharing custody, weekend visitation, and extended holidays with the non custodial parent and their significant other can present challenges. Things such as transportation, medication, alteration of child’s normal activities are a few things that come to mind.. The custodial parent might add more stress to the transition by issuing orders

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24 Aug 2011

Jerks of Divorce

Jerks can be experienced physically, as well as emotionally. The word is also used to describe a person who acts in self-serving ways. Learn how to stop your jerks of divorce.

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19 Aug 2011

How to Divorce Guide – It’s Your Divorce

It takes a brave person to admit when they’re wrong. It takes a courageous person to be humble. It takes a strong person to have compassion. It takes a loving person to let go. No, this isn’t going to get soppy!

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13 Aug 2011

10 More Tips About Going Through Separation

Separation is never an easy time for a couple or a family. It is therefore important for you to remind yourself of a few things from time to time.

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06 Aug 2011

My Boyfriend Still Lives With His Ex!

Dear Young Black Married Man: I’ve been dating this guy for a few weeks now and from the beginning he was upfront & honest about the fact the he and his wife are in the process of getting a divorce b/c it’s just not working out. No serious dysfunction or

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